" How do I know if I am with the right person?"
FALLING in love was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. True enough.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. It s a decision, a choice!
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it!
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!
